Friday, September 9, 2011

Up for Grabs!

Bonjour!!

I know I know it's been a minute since you've heard from the kid...quite a bit has happened especially emotionally but all is well or at least I will make it that way!

The last 2-3 weeks have been pretty eye-opening and ironically motivating to me while dealing with family issues, death, financial woes, being called lazy lol, etc but I was watching a movie the other day and in a very gayish girly way I wrote down the quote the actress used " We are one small adjustment from making our lives work" and the crazy thing is: THIS IS SOOO TRUE! Think about it if you could adjust one small thing in your life everything has the potential to fall right in place. For me it's my attitude if I could just adjust my attitude and how I let people and things affect me I could be on the path to greatness. I started this morning by telling myself: "The world is up for grabs, and I just have to take it". So that's the attitude I plan on having in hopes that this is my adjustment and great things happen.

Someone was brutally honest with me last week and called me lazy and although I may have seemed cool when it was said it PISSED me off because at no point would I ever call my self lazy I bust ass everyday! It bothered me for a couple of days and then I realized it -I am lazy not lazy in my actions but lazy in my thoughts and processes. I bust ass for everybody else but not for myself so another adjustment with my attitude is the thought process of busting ass for me just as I do for everybody else and let's see what happens, see it's all about the attitude (which we know I have-lol).  

To start this new adjustment to my life I made Goal Sheets last night- each individual sheet states a goal at the top and then tasks that will need to be completed over time to get to the final goal - kinda like a road map. This way I hold myself accountable for what needs to be done and I can see where I fell off and what I can do better- HA now call that Lazy lol---- It's amazing how much motivation one can have when they want to prove someone wrong but I guess at the end of the day if their goal is to light a fire under you because they care and want to see you succeed then keep them coming; I'll be lazy all day lol.

So my QuarterLife Phenoms is there an adjustment you can make? and how will you kick your "lazy" in the ass?!

Ciao!!
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